Nearly 15% of women cannot orgasm under any circumstance. Once researcher found a way to give these poor women ultimate pleasure at the push of a button. Learn more by watching what Ana Kasparian and Dave Rubin have to say about this new device. You can also read more here:
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/sci…
Watch more of Dave Rubin at youtube.com/rubinreport
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I definitely would have this done. I was surprised by what Ana said at 4min 9sec about quality of life because it echoes my exact sentiments that I try to express to doctors who often dismiss my concerns. But I was blown away hearing the words that came out of Ana and David’s mouths starting at 4min 45sec because those exact feelings are what run through my head constantly. So to hear those same words articulated from someone who does not have this problem was like hearing validation for a lifetime of sadness and feelings of inadequacy. In short, I feel broken as a woman and inadequate as a partner.
I suffer from severe life long genetic depression, but I was depressed and on medication since my childhood- long before I was a sexual being. But from multiple medication changes to anti-depressants with no/low sexual side effects, along with numerous nerve tests, it seems that my nerves themselves are faulty since I not only cannot orgasm, but I can barely feel anything during sex. Either way I am dismissed by doctors- if it’s my nerves, there’s nothing they can do about it; if it’s the depression or the anti-depressant medications, I must be medicated for life like a diabetic must have insulin and so there’s nothing they can do about it.
I am upfront about it to potential partners but it’s often a dealbreaker.
Think of how it feels to watch passionate sex scenes in movies, or read passages like these in Naomi Wolf’s book: “All women are potentially multiorgasmic, so the mystical or transcendental potential of female sexuality described also allows women to connect often, and in a unique way, even if just for brief moments, with experiences of a shining, “divine,” or greater self or with a sense of the connection among all things. Producing stimulation necessary for these mind states is part of the evolutionary task of the vagina;” or, “Such heightened moments of sexual sensibility lead to a woman’s awareness that she is in a state of a kind of perfection, in harmony with and in connection with the world… after orgasm, I would see colors as if there were brighter; and the details of beauty of the natural world would seem sharper and more compelling. I would feel the connections between things more distinctly for a few hours afterward; my mood would lift… the sense of deep emotional union, of postcoital creative euphoria, of joy with one’s self and with one’s lover, of confidence and volubility and the sense that all was well in some existential way…”
Just to show you how dead on accurate David and Ana were to capturing how it feels to be unable to experience orgasms, I will include a passage I wrote in my journal:
“The part of me I most mourn the loss of with this long list of health issues that continue to plague my life is the loss of something I never had in the first place. The most basic human feeling, the most primitive human experience- that of a sexual being- is something I have never been and never can be. The depression already steals from me basic human emotion and connection, yet my nerves further rob me of basic human physical sensation. What is considered the ultimate sensation that is possible to feel, I will never experience. I am broken, not whole. I will never have that moment of escape from the world and all of its pain, that ultimate connection to a lover, the ecstasy of feeling alive. And it’s not just he peak I will never feel, I can’t even enjoy the build up. I am numb. Like a corpse. Is it worse losing something you at least had the chance to feel, or never having the opportunity to feel it once?”