Members of the millennial generation have come in for a great deal of criticism, whether for their purported laziness, sense of entitlement or addiction to technology. Now a New York Times opinion piece writer has lodged a new complaint at Generation Y: that they don’t know how to love.

According to Towson University English teacher Andrew Reiner, hook-up culture and commitment phobia is denying today’s young people’s brains the necessary oxytocin to help them understand what love is and how to operate in long-term relationships.

In this segment our panel discusses just what love is, whether cuddling is as good as sex, why people are delaying marriage and if millennials are REALLY all that different from previous generations.